How is my life interpreted?

I want be understood, by others and by myself. To overcome miscommunication and find deep connection is my greatest intention. But there are so many intersections that cross in and out of the way people understand each other. In a moment histories collide, perspectives clash, intentions are misunderstood, and a series of ideas are created and released into the web of reality where they will then mingle with other moments to form new ideas that ultimately represent no objective truth. How do I overcome that? So let's take a step back. Say you read one of my pieces. What is the context? How would you know? How would I know? These questions lead to a dead end, a universe of pure subjectivity. How will we ever understand each other? How can we truly connect? In my quest to share a genuine story, I may just be adding to the confusion.